Sorry about that y’all. I’ve been a bit neglectful keeping the blog updated. Thank goodness the holidays are over. That was such a stressful time. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! (I hope you got your spoonful of black-eyed peas 🙂 Unfortunately, we are starting 2017 with the inauguration of a President who has made it clear he is anti-people of color/women (don’t be fooled by the celebrities of color who are kissing azz for their own benefit). I encompass both, so Trump will be no ally to me.
It’s more important than ever to support marginalize voices/communities, as these groups will not be able to look to the new administration to align with those who aren’t white, male, and wealthy.
As someone who is a big lover of DIY (Do It Yourself) culture…I urge folks to financially/promote alternative forms of media/activism, as we will need these resources to keep ourselves safe and heard these next four years.
Here are a FEW to connect with:
Black Girl Dangerous: “Amplifying The Voices of Queer & Trans People of Color.”
Black Women’s Blue Print: “Black Women’s Blueprint envisions a world where women and girls of African descent are fully empowered and where gender, race and other disparities are erased.”
Feminist Wire: “The mission of The Feminist Wire is to provide socio-political and cultural critique of anti-feminist, racist, and imperialist politics pervasive in all forms and spaces of private and public lives of individuals globally.”
Brown Recluse Zine Distro:“Zine culture is not white culture. D.I.Y. culture is not white culture. Punk is not inherently white culture. So in the spirit of resistance, in the spirit of visibility and in the spirit of celebrating our cultures and intersectionality: Brown Recluse Zine Distro.”
On Black Friday, instead of going shopping, I decided to make donations to groups whose work I support. It made me feel so good, that I’ve decided to continue giving in December in the honor of the holidays and all that jazz. It’s important, especially now, to help grassroots organizations as we prepare for battle next year when Trump takes office. It’s going to be a looong 2017.
This week I gave to SisterSong…
“SisterSong is a Southern based, national membership organization; our purpose is to build an effective network of individuals and organizations to improve institutional policies and systems that impact the reproductive lives of marginalized communities.”
While mainstream/white feminism focuses on the issue of abortion, for women of color the struggle tends to be on the right to keep our children. From forced sterilization on reservations/lower-income communities of color to being able to indulge in alternative prenatal/post care (midwives, doulas, etc.) Also, having equal access to birth control.
The organization asks for no more than $5 dollars in contributions. But more is always nice 🙂 Give if ya can!!
“When people show you who they are believe them…”-Dr. Maya Angelou
On Tuesday, November 8, 2016 the majority of (white) Americans decided to ignore the common sense message of the late goddess…Maya Angelou. Now we are stuck with Donald John Trump for president. Le sigh. Of course, there’s been an avalanche of articles on how could this have happened. Particularly, a focus on the “disappointments” and “anger” of the white working class. Most folks of color (including myself) don’t understand why we are supposed to empathize with the problems of working class white folks over working class communities of color. From what I’ve read, many of their concerns are the same (livable wages, good education for their children, etc.) Also, more bizarre, why did white working class folks think a billionaire (who has every opportunity ever handed to him) would be able to relate/improve their lot in life?
I had the misfortune of happening upon Fox News “The Trump Revolution” and all I could do was shake my head. A bunch of confused white folks not quite sure why they voted for Trump, other than he wasn’t a woman/colored (okay, they didn’t say this, but that’s the underlining vibe I got from watching the program). One man broke down in tears and stated Trump would be able to help his improved elderly mother. Umm, okay. The irony of all this, despite the legitimate concerns/fear of folks of color when Trump takes office in January, it will be white people who find themselves struggling the most. The thing about folks of color, we are survivalists. We have learned how to navigate oppressive times. Not all of us made it, because we are only human and the body/mind can only take so much, but overall all the majority of us are still here.
Many white folks have shown they can’t handle stress/hard times. Think The Great Depression where suicide rates skyrocketed. Where, even now white folks tend to have the highest suicide rates when things go amidst. Hell, the election results themselves show how white folks can’t handle change. Instead of embracing the growing diversity of our country, how it could empower us all with folks different talents/contributions, many see it as a threat. Most would rather hearken back to a time of blatant violence/hatefulness of folks who don’t look like them. I currently reside in a red state. I see/hear this mentality all the time. I have to look at a confederate flag everyday. It’s sad and alarming.
But in the end, its white folks I wish luck to. They are going to need it.
I’m a huge Mary J Blige (MJB) fan. I will never forget when her video debuted on Video Soul (old heads will know what I’m talking about). She had me at “you remind me…” So it pains me to have to besmirch her name. Just a little. While Blige has been credited with being the iconic voice of the merging of hip hop/soul music, spanning a 20+ career of record sells and awards, technically the honor should go to Michel’le. Michel’le’s self-titled album was released three year’s before Blige’s in 1992. She really is the first r&b singer whose sound was heavily infused with hip hop music. This can probably be attributed to her boyfriend at the time, rapper/producer Dr. Dre.
Over the years, Michel’le has talked about her tumultuous relationship with Dr. Dre, stating he was very abusive towards her. When the film “Straight Out of Compton” came out last year, the allegations resurfaced. Most folks told Michel’le (and Dee Barnes) to shut up about their violent encounter(s) with Dr. Dre. Many felt that they should “let the past be the past” and that Dre had right to have his life story told.
Thank goodness neither Michel’le or Barnes listened to that nonsense. Barnes had an opportunity to tell her story via an online interview and now Michel’le will tell her side of things in the upcoming Lifetime movie, “Surviving Compton: Dre, Suge & Me.” The movie will premiere this upcoming Saturday, October 15th.
Fitting it comes out during Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Finally, one of the first female contributors to hip hop/soul music, is getting her due.
I’m a bit late posting this, but thought I would share anyway. Last weekend, I attended Arkansas’s first comic/sci-fi/pop culture convention. Spa Con. Being a lover of science fiction, you know I had to go. I took my little one along for the ride. The event was decent. It will probably get better as the new convention gets more national attention, vendors, etc. They also need to upgrade their folks of color representation. We love alternative worlds too!! However, for the most part, I had a decent time. And the event was an appetizer for the celebration of Black Speculative Fiction Month…which is in October 🙂
“this is only for the grown and sexy people…”
Well, you don’t necessarily need to be sexy, but you do need to be grown. This recipe combines two of my guilty pleasures…anything fried and tequila. I love the simplicity of the recipe. Perfect adult snack for a summer evening with friends or alone. heh.
Deep-fried tequila shots
“Only five steps separate you from deep-fried boozy bliss. First: make an angel food cake (or, you know, buy one). Next, cube it up into poppable bites. After that, soak each cake cube in tequila, then deep-fry the cubes in oil until they’re golden on all sides. Finally, sprinkle your shots with powdered sugar. Placing them all in an actual salt-rimmed shot glass is up to you, as is deep-frying the worm.” Recipe from: https://www.thrillist.com/drink/nation/deep-fried-tequila-shots-recipe-by-oh-bite-it
Wow. Life is good 🙂
Funny enough, while I like to find recipes, I actually don’t like cooking all that much. I guess I’m more into the eating part. However, now that I have a little one, I know I need to upgrade my cooking skills. Luckily, he is still in the formula/baby food stage, but I know the days of sizzling hot dishes and baked treats are fast approaching (yes, I’m pretending I will be doing this). So, I’ve been keeping recipes that are fun to make for/with kids. I came across these mouthwatering cookies. I love sweets, so I may actually try to make this 🙂
White Chocolate Coconut Cookies
10 tablespoons (1 stick plus 2 tablespoons) butter, softened
3/4 cup sugar granulated sugar
1/4 cup packed light brown sugar
1 tablespoon fresh orange zest (zest from one orange), lightly packed
1 large egg
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
12 oz. bag white chocolate chips
1 cup sweetened flaked coconut
Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F.
Cream the butter, both sugars, and orange zest until light and fluffy using an electric mixer (approximately 2 minutes on medium high speed). Add in the egg and vanilla on low speed until fully incorporated. Then add in the flour, baking powder, baking soda, and kosher salt. Continue to gently mix on low speed until the flour is completely blended in.
Lastly, add the white chocolate chips and coconut and mix on low speed until both are evenly distributed. Using a medium scoop (approximately 1.5 tablespoons), scoop the cookie dough onto a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Place the dough balls two inches apart from one another. *A standard baking sheet will hold a dozen cookies.
Bake the cookies for 10-12 minutes until lightly browned, making sure to rotate the baking sheet after the first five minutes. Allow the cookies to cool on the baking sheet for 2-3 minutes before transferring to a plate or cooling rack.